What is an example of causation in sociology?
The following story is an example of the relationship between cause and effect in the process of working in society. Understand cause and effect, and respect cause and effect.
Once each of us develops a habit, whether good or bad, this habit will always possess him.
But when you get used to getting something for nothing and relying on others, then you will forever lose the right to happiness.
Oil magnate Rockefeller once said: “If you want to cripple a man, all you have to do is give him a pair of crutches.”
The story of a female college student
I saw a very popular post on the Internet, “Twelve times a month, two bosses take turns. I am no longer worthy of love.”
The protagonist of the story is a female college student. The girl claimed that she had done some part-time jobs during college. The part-time job I took at the beginning not only paid an outrageously low salary, but I also often had my wages deducted.
Fortunately, someone later introduced her to a job serving tea and water in a bar, and the salary was higher than before.
In addition, there are male models, female models, etc. in the bar. Their jobs were easier and they made more money, but she always felt that they were not serious part-time jobs and looked down upon them.
Unfortunately, as time passed, her mind slowly changed.
He himself is not bad looking, but he is always scolded for various reasons; while those who drink and chat with others can easily get high salaries with a few laughs. Why? She thought that as long as she stuck to her heart and just chatted, nothing would happen.
Unfortunately, once the fire of desire begins to burn, it will be difficult to stop the depravity.
A man who was ten years older than her found her and made an agreement with her 12 times a month. After that, the man also introduced her to another boss. They worked together for half a month, and she could get double the money.
The job is easy and there are two “salaries”. Who can resist the temptation? In this way, the girl lived a happy life that she had never imagined before.
It wasn’t until one day that she met the boy she was truly attracted to that she gradually regretted it. She knew that she was not worthy of him. So even if boys also have a crush on her, she never dares to break the window paper.
What’s even sadder is that the financial owner found a younger and more beautiful girl and ended their relationship.
She was completely desperate. Years of lavish life had already corroded her will and broken her spine. She could no longer support herself through serious efforts.
She didn’t tell the story anymore, and just wrote: “I am no longer worthy of love.”
In an era of rampant materialism, when inflated desires do not match their own abilities, inertia makes more and more people choose to put down their “moral baggage” and embark on the seemingly easiest path.
As everyone knows, the so-called shortcuts are all dead ends. Those who are greedy for short-term convenience will eventually pay a heavy price.
As Zweig said: “She was too young at that time and did not know that all the gifts given by fate had already been marked in secret.”
When you pay for sex, you lose everything. Coincidentally, this kind of thing is also happening in other places.
Xiaoru was originally an excellent girl, but she fell into the abyss because of a single thought.
In her sophomore year, at an event co-organized by the school and an enterprise, Xiaoru, who was a receptionist, met the owner of the enterprise.
After the two exchanged contact information, the business owner often contacted Xiaoru on the pretext of understanding the campus teaching model, talent recruitment, etc. Later, he invited her to dinner again and again on the grounds of gratitude, and was generous with various brand-name luxury goods. .
Under such rounds of bombing, Xiaoru gradually lost herself. Once she couldn’t help herself, Xiaoru had a relationship with the boss of the company. Since then, she has become the business owner’s “girlfriend” at his beck and call.
In the years that followed, Xiaoru was asked to have an abortion three times.
Who would have thought that when she had her third abortion, the doctor told her that because of the scarred uterus, she might never have another child.
Misfortune never comes singly. After the business owner transferred the last amount of money to her, he also disappeared. Her life has completely become a tragedy.
However, among so many “nurturing” tragedies, abortion may be considered the best outcome. Being trafficked, forced into prostitution, infected with diseases, and sentenced… are all possibilities.
In places you don’t know, some “sugar daddies” even force female college students to participate in illegal crimes in order to better control them.
In 2018, an Australian girl helped her “sugar daddy” smuggle pornographic drugs. The cocaine in her suitcase was worth more than $21 million. Her ending can be imagined, and she was sentenced to 8 years in prison.
The best eight years of a girl’s life can only be spent in a dark prison.
When a person regards his body, dignity, and emotions as tradable items, that is the greatest insult you can do to yourself!
The founder of a well-known foreign sex trading website also bluntly said: “The moment you “pay” for your sex, you lose all power.”
When a person lives, even if he cannot create extraordinary achievements, he should still live with dignity and meaning.
There is no happiness for those who are complacent with a cane.
As the saying goes: “Mountains will fall if you rely on them, and people will run if you rely on people.” Use sex to treat people, sooner or later the sex will fade and the love will fade, and the love will fade away.
Using one’s youth and beauty as a bargaining chip in exchange for benefits is always the stupidest choice. Only wisdom, talent, knowledge, and independent personality are a person’s most reliable weapons and most valuable wealth in this life.
Final words:
A moment of intoxication leads to a lifetime of endless regrets and irreversible consequences. Sometimes it is a mistake caused by the environment, sometimes it is a temptation due to simple thoughts, but one can take the path of exchanging one’s body for something. Those who follow the road have strong material desires and vanity in their bones, and those who want to take shortcuts will be tempted and fall.
It’s not that you can’t have material desires. Only with desires can you have motivation. However, a gentleman loves money and gets it in a proper way. Obtaining it through his own efforts is the right way. Those who rely on others, or even obtain money through the body, are evil ways. In the end, What you get is not happiness, but misfortune. Because I don’t understand that cause and effect are true, and that every thought and action I make has a cause and effect, I will take shortcuts, but in the end I will go further and further, and things will go against my wishes.
